That Time of the Year

It’s finally that day again, the day when almost the whole world is draped in red and drenched in love (?).

I don’t know whether to smile or smirk at the things that build up to this so-called day of love. Did you know that the celebrations of V-day begin a week back and there are days titled “promise day”, “hug day” and all that? I became aware of all this only last year. I must be romantically challenged or something. Being single, these mushy, little things do seem annoying at times. But then again, if you have someone to celebrate all this with, then even the trivial becomes special.

My week had been going pretty stressful. I had my exams, and I was hell underprepared. Whereas I couldn’t be less excited about today, it seemed as if everyone around me believed in all this insanity. I heard my classmates making plans, picking new dresses, looking for new restaurants and flocking the love corner of Archies; basically, making me realise of the little void in my life. But was that the truth? Does it all come down to just one day being the day to love someone? When did we make such a beautiful feeling so exclusive that we couldn’t celebrate it all year around? I’ve been single since a very long time, and yes there are times when I wish I had that one person to share my eccentricities with, but never have I felt lonely. I’ve always had my friends, my books, my music and most of all, my parents, to open my heart to. So, I didn’t let this lovestruck ambience get to me. Instead, I got back home early, had some yummy pizza, watched F.R.I.E.N.D.S, and felt perfectly happy. Also, I’m blessed with some really amazing friends who called me up and wished me Happy Valentine’s Day, making me realise just how blessed I am; ‘cause love, comes in many different forms, and experiencing them all is indeed a blessing. J

I feel every person, be it single or committed, has a right to feel happy in their own way. Because after all, being in a relationship is a matter of choice, and nobody should be made to feel bad if they don’t have someone to share the last spring roll with or snuggle up on the sofa with and watch Notting Hill together.

I watched a movie, Hasee Toh Phasee just two days back (by the way, I really wanted to write a review on it that very day, but couldn't because of my exams. And now I think I’m too lazy to write one). I thought it would be just another typical romcom, but it totally proved me wrong. The highlight of the movie is definitely the mixture of Parineeti’s effortless brilliance, Sidharth’s irresistible charm and the duo’s smooth chemistry; but what I really just loved about the movie is the simple relationship that was depicted. It showed that love doesn't need to be extraordinary or larger-than-life. Rather, it’s the little things like understanding, compromise and compatibility that make it all worthwhile. I left the theatre filled with mirth and hope. Advice: if you’re alone this weekend, just go and catch this movie. Trust me, you won’t regret it.

On the other hand, God decided to pervade Delhi today with a tinge of the rainy, romantic atmosphere. While singles like me got to stay at home, reading a book and sipping black tea, all the people in love got to amble around, feeling lost in a happy way. So, it was pretty much a win-win situation for all. J

Anyway, I guess singles all over the universe must be pretty relieved that this week is coming to an end. The world can now go back to being black, white and gray. But hey, amidst all the stress and crap we go through, isn't everyday a reminder that love is hidden in trivial things, just waiting to be discovered? Maybe all it takes is the will to see beyond the surface. So, next time, take a closer look, ‘cause love maybe just waiting around the corner, literally. :D

Take care and feel loved,

Creative Insanity.